Sharo comes from the Fulani language and means “to flog.” Two potential suitors compete for a girl’s hand in marriage by participating in a flogging competition. This is a prominent and long-standing ritual in Fulani culture. This test is carried out to determine whether a young man has reached the age of majority and is mature enough to accept a spouse. To destroy his adversary if he happens to unleash his vigour, a suitor must endure the ordeal of caning. The upcoming groom will have friends and family supporting him. At the same time, he undergoes the gruelling process to prevent him from crying or shedding even a single tear because if he does, the bride’s family will immediately reject him and view him as weak.
However, the appearance of bare-chested, unmarried young men who are followed to the centre ring by attractive young girls is the highlight of the sharofestival in northern Nigeria. The festival opens with various skits performed by maiden dancers and tricksters. However, the main event of the celebration has yet tobegin. The families of the contenders watch and pray that their sons will not disgrace their family because it is embarrassing for a family whose son is unable to endure the pain of the flogging. Enraptured spectators cheer on in dread as the contenders and challengers start the round.
During the competition, the participant displays his whip and flogs his opponent a minimum of ten times. To avoid being labelled a coward, he must suffer in every way possible without showing any signs of agony or writhing in discomfort.
As the festival draws to a close, the individual who has survived is honoured as a man and allowed to marry the girl who was the subject of the competition or any other girl of his choosing. He can marry as many as four wives, providing he can maintain a balance among all four. If he wishes to do so and can endure more hardship in other competitions, he can consider doing so. Consequently, this is by Islamic law, which permits a man to marry more than one wife.